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Service of Questions—Does Google Have All the Answers?

Monday, January 14th, 2019

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Questions, without immediate answers, often pop into my head. Every post has them of course and I’ve also focused on the topic several times before.

Here are some recent ones:

  • How do commuters fill the time and not go crazy when a traffic reporter tells them it will be 80 minutes just to get on a bridge or in a tunnel to NYC during morning rush hour–which happened last week?
  • How do pet owners of average means pay the vet bill when they have more than two love-animals?
  • I’ve lived in a moderate sized house and apartments ranging from very large to moderate size and now I live in a small apartment. Why is it that my husband and I lose as many things in the small space as in the large?

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I asked Mike, a millennial and techy and my office next door neighbor, if unanswered questions like these pop into his head and did he think about the answers. He said, “I Google everything. I’d rather know.”  The child of the Internet added, “Google has never steered me wrong.”

I use Google a lot but hadn’t thought to do so regarding this crop of questions and when I did, it satisfied a third of them.

  • Commuters in traffic: I’d already thought of learning a language or listening to an audio book which I also read about as a result of a Google search. To address the stress I hadn’t thought of wearing comfy shoes as that would be automatic for me before a potentially trying drive, or loosening clothes and stretching before heading home after a difficult day. None addressed how to tackle the surprise of an extra one hour plus to a commute.
  • Pet owners paying vet bills for many pets: I didn’t find a satisfactory answer to my second question though I admit I didn’t spend a long time looking. I read about what percentage of pet owners have pet insurance; How much should pet owners spend on a sick pet; How much is the average vet bill and How much does a dog cost monthly? I suppose the answer to my question is “these owners don’t go to a vet for routine care.” [Our bills upstate ran on average $350 for such care for one cat especially if a blood test was involved.]
  • Losing things in big and small spaces: Results for question number three were equally unsatisfactory. Response categories covered how to stop losing things at home and a prayer to find a lost item to how to find something you love.

What kinds of questions pop into your head? Do you resort to Google for responses? If not, how do you satisfy them?

 

Photo: dogster.com

 

 

Service of Lost and Found

Tuesday, May 27th, 2014

  

lost and foundWe bought a house that came with a feral cat. We fed him outdoors for several years, as the previous owner instructed us to do. One weekend he didn’t come round and we were devastated as we feared he’d been attacked by a coyote. When he reappeared we rejoiced.

He was very friendly but wouldn’t come in the house. He’d put one paw inside the door and then he’d retreat but quick–until one winter when he was trapped under a shallow eve by a storm that left three feet of snow. We scooped him up from the overhang where he was stuck and calling for help, and brought him inside. After that he became an indoor/outdoor cat but if he didn’t return for dinner, we’d worry.

When I read about Reckless the dog, who ran away in fright during Hurricane Sandy and landed up in the Monmouth County, NJ SPCA, I felt for Charles and Elicia James and their three kids who lost him. Lisa L. Colangelo wrote in her Daily News article that he didn’t have a microchip and James found his collar sticking in the fence. Due to the damage to their home they, too had to leave.  

Reckless. Photo: NY Daily News

Reckless. Photo: NY Daily News

Charles searched for Reckless at shelters and elsewhere. A few weeks ago, after 18 months, he and his wife decided to adopt another dog for their daughter’s 10th birthday, so they went to the shelter. There was their pit bull, who had arrived in October.

Reunited with his family Reckless, whom Liz Wise of the SPCA described as “a really sweet dog with a great disposition,” now has a microchip.

I’ve lost and found things that mean a lot to me and feel overwhelming gratitude. Being reunited with a pet inspires more than simple relief. Have you lost and found something and celebrated with a cheer and more?

 

 

This man was reunited with his dog. Photo: oregonlive.com

This man was reunited with his dog. Photo: oregonlive.com

 

Service of Thanksgiving

Monday, November 19th, 2012

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I’m surprised I haven’t written a post with this headline in all the years.

Apart from the season, what made me think of it was something that happened in the 14th Street Subway station the other day.

thanksgivingparadeI’ll get back to that in a minute, but first a word from our sponsor [me]. Strange how Thanksgiving reminds me most of my father who was French, didn’t share a turkey and cranberry sauce tradition and moved to this country in his 30s. Until I married and moved away first to Illinois and then to North Dakota and Turkey [as in the country] my Dad and I never walked across Central Park from my parent’s apartment on the east side to see the Thanksgiving Day Parade every year.  And while Thanksgiving continues to be a favorite holiday–I love baking pies, making cranberry sauce and stuffing and eating leftovers the next day–I also feel sad moments missing friends and family.  Just think how those who have lost all their belongings and/or family members in Hurricane Sandy must feel. They are not yet over the shock.

subway-14th-stBack to the subway: I’d been jotting a note on my mobile phone while riding downtown. I dashed out, trotting briskly toward the stairs, when I heard a man yelling “Lady! Lady! Miss! Miss!” He was running after me, waving my gloves that he’d just scooped up off the platform. I was so thankful! I often see a belt, scarf or a glove on the ground on city streets and in public places and wonder, with crowds everywhere, why someone hasn’t rescued a dropped accessory and returned it to its owner.

lostphoneDavid Reich, a colleague, found a phone on the street and left it off at the T-Mobile store so that the staff could reunite it with its owner. We found an abandoned phone at the American Craft Show NYC at the Javits a few weeks ago. While my client, Richard Rothbard, was placing calls to see if he could identify the owner, the phone rang and it was the owner’s sister. Both were still at the show. The owner was beside herself with gratitude as she hugged her phone. [When my husband lost his mobile phone a few weeks ago, nobody returned it–more typical perhaps?].

More apt, I am thankful that my husband is beginning to feel better after being sick and debilitated since spring. He is recovering from chronic tick-borne diseases that it took months to diagnose. A doctor in Pawling, NY has been unraveling the physical mystery since August. 

dsc022581While this is beginning to sound like an Academy Award acceptance speech, I am thankful for my family-and I count close friends in this category-to Lucrezia the loyal commenter on this blog and to all the others who take the time to share their thoughts; to my office colleagues, clients, media and association contacts, the students I’ve mentored for their camaraderie and loyalty and fellow mentors, many of whom have become friends.

Far more important than my Thanksgiving memories and anecdotes are yours. I hope you’ll share.  Happy Thanksgiving!

Discussion after Thanksgiving dinner

Discussion after Thanksgiving dinner

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